I noticed that my mind have two gears when it comes to the opposite sex. I'm either too interested to be interesting or so completely absorbed by work/personal project/games that I'm unable to notice if anyone is or isn't flirting with me (plus the fact that when I'm so obsessed with something like that, I either don't leave my room for days or spend time with my buddies).
The fact that the human race haven't got extinct by now means that my problem is not something the majority can relate to. I hope I'll find a way to deal with this issue. My theory is that my efforts with writing and designs will eventually pay off and that my professional success should attract a certain amount of females. Unfortunately, I'm not sure I would like to date a person interested merely by my wallet and/or social standing and I don't think I would like to invest time and energy in a relationship in a scenario where I can earn my living by writing novels because that would be so awesome I would not need affection (at least, not from another person. I would probably become to self absorbed or something -_-')
One another topic (welll... not really). I found it increasingly difficult to meet new interesting potential dates. The best place to meet nice single people are schools, followed closely by certain types of work environments. As I'm done with school and that my job consist mainly of staying in my room going crazy with a computer, I'm not sure what kid of places could be appropriate. Public places are weird, most people you meet in bars are not worth the risks and trouble, I do not like yoga that much and most parties I go to are either sausage-fest, full of not-so-singles or people whose age is to far from mine.
In conclusion, I am eager to finish that darn novel to see what would happen after that. What if a nice lady attending my book launch fancies me...
Je crois qu'avoir comme motivation (même si elle est périphérique) de conquérir une femme n'est pas la meilleure option. En fait, je crois que c'est une motivation qui joue contre l'auteur. Cela, pour plusieurs raisons : 1) Si un jour tu trouves une fille, qu'est-ce qui te motivera pour écrire ensuite 2) Si ça ne marche pas pendant des mois, est-ce que la motivation va rester? 3) C'est être un peu trop optimiste. Ce n'est pas parce qu'une femme a écrit un livre qu'elle va me plaire. Si une fille s'intéresse à toi parce que tu as écrit un livre, quel genre de femme ce sera?
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